I’ve noticed with people that if you give them the idea that you will allocate some of your time to contact them, far too many take advantage of that privilege. I’ve noticed when I do not make contact with people, there is either no, or a very very delayed, attempt to contact me. This can be quite disconcerting.
I’ve decided in order to properly heal myself, I can not allow my co-dependance to kick in. If someone contacts me, I will bring them into my life and not allow them to make me their toy. If they do not contact me, then they will become historical. It’s easier to quit cold turkey then to linger in your addiction.

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